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%u2022Remember that you owe sexual respect to the other person. %u2022Don%u2019t make assumptions about the other person%u2019s consent or about how far they are willing to go.%u2022Remember that consent to one form of sexual activity does not necessarily imply consent to another form of sexual behavior. %u2022If your partner expresses a withdrawal of consent, stop immediately. %u2022Clearly communicate your sexual intentions so that the other person has a chance to clearly tell you their intentions.%u2022Consider %u201cmixed messages%u201d a clear sign that the other person is uncomfortable with the situation and may not be ready to progress sexually. %u2022Don%u2019t take advantage of someone who is really drunk or on drugs, even if they knowingly and intentionally put themselves in that state. Further, don%u2019t be afraid to step in if you see someone else trying to take advantage of a nearly incapacitated person. %u2022Be aware of the signs of incapacitation, such as slurred speech, bloodshot eyes, vomiting, unusual behavior, passing out, staggering, etc. It is also important to be aware of the warning signs of an abusive person. Some examples include: past abuse; threats of violence or abuse; breaking objects; using force during an argument; jealousy; controlling behavior; quick involvement; unrealistic expectations; isolation; blames others for problems; hypersensitivity; cruelty to animals or children; %u201cplayful%u201d use of force during sex; JekyllandHyde personality.Bystander InterventionIn addition to reporting incidents to appropriate authorities, below are some ways in which individuals can take safe and positive steps to prevent harm and intervene when there is a risk of dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking against another person. %u2022Look out for those around you. %u2022Realize that it is important to intervene to help others. %u2022Treat everyone respectfully. Do not be hostile or an antagonist. %u2022Be confident when intervening. %u2022Recruit help from others if necessary.%u2022Be honest and direct. %u2022Keep yourself safe.%u2022If things get out of hand, don%u2019t hesitate to contact the police.Other Information Covered by the PPAPThe PPAP also provides information on possible sanctions and protective measures that may be imposed following a determination that an offense of dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking has occurred, an explanation of the disciplinary procedures that will be followed when one of these offenses is alleged, the rights of the parties in such a proceeding, available resources, and other pertinent information. Much of this information is set forth in the upcoming sections of this security report.

